Author Archives: cazaber

The Not-So-Big Goodbye

Posted on July 1, 2015 by cazaber

Hi there, So after a year and a half of intermittent posts you may have noticed that my posts have slowed down to a new level of, well, not being active. Life’s been busy the past few months (I’m kind … Continue reading →

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Elust #70

Posted on May 15, 2015 by cazaber

Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions … Continue reading →

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Sex Toys in the Library: Bamboo [Review]

Posted on May 12, 2015 by cazaber

I’m trying out a new format for my reviews by using subheaders and making a mini table of contents at the top of the post. One of these subheaders will be for information that I feel could be relevant to trans women … Continue reading →

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In Which Constance Augusta Is Reminded That You Can’t Force an Orgasm

Posted on April 24, 2015 by cazaber

Throughout my relatively short history of being sexually active I’ve managed to accidentally injure partners (e.g. Kneeing a partner so hard in the crotch that they fell off the bed and onto the linoleum floor.) and myself (e.g. Tweaking my … Continue reading →

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A Miss Marple Drinking Game

Posted on March 27, 2015 by cazaber

At some point in January I decided that it would be a good use of my time to read every Miss Marple story Agatha Christie ever wrote (I’m so serious about it that I made a Goodreads shelf for what … Continue reading →

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The Very Real Women of Terry Pratchett’s Discworld

Posted on March 13, 2015 by cazaber

Yesterday I woke up to news that I’ve been expecting for year- the death of Sir Terry Pratchett. I first came across Pratchett when 13 year old Constnace accidentally subscribed to a monthly sci-fi/fantasy book delivery service (Don’t ask.) and … Continue reading →

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Clickbait Headlines from Virginia Woolf

Posted on February 18, 2015 by cazaber

13 Photographs of Hedges That Will Inexplicably Invoke Memories of a Woman Who You Loved but Never Kissed! You Haven’t Lived until You’ve Experienced THIS Sense of Twisting Despair! I Asked Ten Men What They Thought of Women Writers and … Continue reading →

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Sex Toys in the Library: The Pulse [Review]

Posted on February 3, 2015 by cazaber

On the morning of December the 19th I took to Twitter over issues I had with the language used about the Pulse, a new toy from Hot Octopus that had been rolled out earlier in 2014. By the end of … Continue reading →

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Happy Birthday Emily

Posted on December 10, 2014 by cazaber

To make a prairie it takes a clover and one bee, One clover, and a bee. And revery. The revery alone will do, If bees are few. I’ve been sitting here for far too long trying to write an opening … Continue reading →

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Music to Bake to

Posted on November 30, 2014 by cazaber

The world has darkness and fear and at times it feels as though this darkness and fear is overwhelming. It can grab at us and pull us down, convincing us that there’s nothing we can do. Personally I’ve grown up … Continue reading →

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